The Effects Of
Marijuana On Young Minds
What are the effects of marijuana on young
minds? Ask a few parents of teenagers who have a marijuana
problem, and you will probably get similar answers. Never
mind what some authorities say, just listen to the sorrow in
their voice.
Certainly, there are varying degrees of
marijuana use. For some people it is minimal, with minimal
side effects. Others might get caught up in a short-term
summer fling of sorts. Then there are those who smoke it
every single day, often several times a day. Probably none
of these groups would even recognize that they had a
habit.
For a parent to watch their once bright-eyed,
inquisitive, curious, helpful, considerate child become a
pot-head, the pain is heartbreaking. It is like watching a
beautiful flower wilt a little more everyday. This is a lot
different than the flower children of my youth!
The 60's were a unique time of awakening. They
were mostly innocent times, plus the marijuana today is up
to 25 times more potent! The effects of marijuana are much
different today, as is our culture.
What are some of the
negative effects of marijuana?
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Indifference. Those precious childhood
interests are dropped, as are the relationships.
These things are no longer cool, so they become
worthless. School becomes almost meaningless, it is
almost torture to wait for class to end. The thought
of getting high is always buzzing in the
thoughts.
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Lack of motivation. It is like the
engine is gone, there is so little drive, so little
enthusiasm for the little or big things in life.
Maybe hacky-sack or Frisbee.
-
Poor stewardship. Personal possessions
are neglected. Things get lost. Items are borrowed,
but never returned, and when they are they might be
damaged. This is one of the most frustrating effects
of marijuana.
-
Forgetting things. Maybe they forget to
pick up their brother at soccer practice and he is
left sitting for two hours. They miss appointments,
lose things.
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Endless alibis and lies to cover up.
Because there are more important things to do, like
getting high, something must give. So, other people
get neglected, responsibilities are overlooked, all
so the hunger can be fed. Because it is illegal,
marijuana use must usually be done in secret.
-
Lethargy. A lot like a lack of
motivation, but a little more pervasive. Lots of
sleeping in, lounging around (chillin'), the good
ideas just never happen. You feel like poking them
to see if they will react.
-
Inability to concentrate. Well, they
can concentrate on drawing intricate stoner
pictures, or playing certain games, such as chess.
But trying to do some practical work, forget it!
Spaced out in the land of cannabis.


What can a parent
do?
Never give up hope! For some teenagers, this
phase passes and they blossom into wonderful adults. They
might have a wasted year or two, but are able to rebound and
catch up. Others, unfortunately, just have a very hard time
growing out of their marijuana dependency. For these young
minds, the effects of marijuana can be devastating.
The best thing is to act quickly and with love.
They may act as thought they don't hear a word you are
saying, but the feeling is absorbed. Every person is
different, some respond to rules and submit to your demands
for accountability. Others simply ignore you and do their
own thing.
Ask for help. Ask your school guidance
counselor for advice. They are well versed in this arena and
have many resources available. There are many excellent
family therapists who specialize in treating addictions.
There are also some excellent ebooks available on the
Internet, besides the bound books at your local
bookstore.
More than anything, you must be there for the
long haul. You may need to separate yourself for your own
welfare, but you can still be there, on their side.
Never underestimate the addictive
effects of marijuana. Many people take this lightly,
and push for legalization, etc.. Yet, if you have ever been
the heartbroken parent of a full-blown pothead, you would
see things quite differently.
There is a very effective audio series that has
helped many marijuana users to get free from their habit. It
is called the Cannabis Coach
Quit Smoking Guide.
This progam is guaranteed to work, or you money
back. It was developed by a former marijuana addict and
really works.

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